par for the course
⛳ par for the course
Concrete Meaning
Something that is normal, expected, or typical for a given situation, often referring to a negative or challenging circumstance.
💬 Context & Examples
Use this to sigh and accept that a frustrating or difficult situation is actually completely typical for the industry, person, or process you are dealing with.
- "Long hours in the final week of a software launch are just par for the course."
- "The client requested three major revisions at the last minute, which is par for the course with them."
🧠 Pattern Challenge
Test Yourself
In golf, "par" is the standard, expected number of strokes a skilled player should take to complete a hole. Why do we usually use this idiom for annoying things rather than good things?
Show Answer
Because it emphasizes resignation; just like a difficult golf hole requires a certain number of strokes no matter what, a difficult situation will inevitably have a standard set of frustrating obstacles you just have to accept.